Necklaces may be small accessories, but the right length can make a big difference in how they complement your look. Whether you're layering chains, dressing for a special occasion, or buying a gift, knowing which length works best for your neckline, height, and style can take your jewelry game to the next level.
At Mycross, we offer a wide selection of beautifully crafted cross pendants and necklaces designed to suit every neckline and personal style. In this guide, we’ll break down how to choose the right necklace length for both women and men—so you can find the fit that’s just right.
For women: flattering lengths for every neckline
Women’s necklaces are available in a wide range of lengths, each suited to different outfits and occasions. Here’s a quick overview:
Choker (14–16 inches, about 36-41 cm ): A choker sits snugly around the neck and works beautifully with open necklines like scoop, off-the-shoulder, or strapless tops. It draws attention upward, making it a popular choice for more formal or elegant looks.
Princess (18 inches, about 46 cm): This is the most common length and hits just below the collarbone. It’s ideal for pendants and suits almost any neckline, from crew necks to V-necks.
Matinee (20–24 inches, about 50-60 cm): A matinee necklace rests between the collarbone and the bust. It works well with higher necklines or business attire, offering a touch of sophistication.
Opera (28–36 inches, about 70-90 cm): Long and elegant, an opera-length necklace can be worn as a single strand or doubled for a layered effect. It’s a great match for high necklines and evening wear.
Rope (over 36 inches, 90 cm): These ultra-long styles are often worn wrapped or knotted, adding drama and versatility to your look.
Style tip: If you’re layering, mix different lengths and textures to create a balanced, intentional look. Try pairing a choker with a princess-length chain, or a fine pendant with a thicker matinee chain.
For men: confident choices that complement your style
Necklace styles for men tend to be simpler and more subtle, but length still plays an important role. Here’s how the typical sizes stack up:
18 inches (about 46 cm): Sits at the base of the neck and is best suited to smaller builds. This is a close-fitting option, often worn under the shirt.
20 inches (about 51 cm): The most common length for men, it falls at the collarbone and works well with both open collars and crew necks.
22–24 inches (about 56-61 cm): Falls just below the collarbone and works well for pendants or dog tags. This length has a slightly more relaxed, modern vibe.
26–30 inches (about 66-76 cm): These longer chains are usually worn over clothing and make more of a statement. They’re often paired with larger pendants or medallions.
Style tip: For a clean, everyday look, a 20–22 inch chain in a classic style like curb, figaro, or rope will never go out of fashion. If you wear a pendant, make sure the weight and style are balanced with the chain.
Spoiled for choice?
Choosing the right necklace length is about matching your personal style, your clothing, and your comfort. Think about how you plan to wear it, whether it’s going to layer with other pieces, and how it frames your face and neckline.
Browse our collection of cross necklaces and pendants to discover the pieces that speak to you. Whether you're drawn to a classic design or a bold modern shape, you're sure to find something meaningful at Mycross.
As a personal note
With 27 years of experience in the jewelry business, I’d gently suggest having a small selection of necklaces in different lengths. It allows you to adjust your look to suit different outfits and gives you the freedom to play with layering. A little variety can truly make a difference.
– Clair Grayson
“Make it yours and wear it well.”